Why do people go into relationships? Is it just to quench the painful feeling of loneliness, or to be easily satisfied when those ;;) urges arise or to just blend into peer groups? Whatsoever your reasons are, you need to understand the full implication of what you are setting into, else it is headed for the rocks.
          We fall for ourselves for material and superficial reasons (This is very selfish).money,status,looks,abilities etc and when these attributes are lost, we then start to loose interest.
          There is more to a person than their looks,social status,capabilities, but the problem is that we do not care to really see people for who they really are, we are blinded by tags,labels of financial status (buoyant/broke/managing), looks (handsome/ok/just there/ugly), that's why we don't really see.
          Diamonds could be covered in mud and a man looking for diamonds would search till the ends of the earth and will not find it, until he is ready to look beyond the superficial, only then will he find fortune. The same applies to relationships.
          I hope you find that special relationship, and when you do, be patient with it                              love it, treasure it, understand it and care for it. Because the grass is not always going to be green, that's why we water it.

           Until you find and give a love that is unconditional, selfless, patient, understanding, timeless, your relationships are bound to fall.                                                                                                                                                            written by:Priscilla Oyinlola.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       XoXo...                                                                                                                                                          <3 ...Debby                                                                                

ONCES SHE GETS ATTACHED

Once she gets attached, she's loyal she's committed,she's honest,she's faithful,she's dependable,she's caring.but you know what comes with that? she's jealous,she's clingy she'sannoying, she's overprotective she's emotional,she's crazy, you could push her away. but she'll come back to you.you could piss her off but she can never stay mad at you. you could lie to her but she would try to trust you. you could keep making mistakes but she would forgive you over and over again.she has no dime but she can safe the little she gets to call you, just to know aw your doing. you could make her hate you,but she would start loving you all over again. Men... if you have got such a girl pls don't let her go, Do whatever it takes for both of you to last forever. Make her feel special if you truly love her. you may take her for granted now but ones she's out of your life that's when you would realise what she meant to you.you would miss her and cry for her but she would be long gone....so if you have that chance use it now and act accordingly... xoxo  <3